a loss is only a loss if you are silly enough to let it go without even trying.
if you are both lying on your bedroom floor crying your eyeballs out, then it's a sign to work it out!
sydney update: conference ended today, checked out of the hotel-with-a-view, and checked into a smaller hotel, which is cheap and big enough for me to sleep and watch some tv.
have been walking around Circular Quay taking pictures of the bridge and the Opera House. syok gila now i'm armed with my D50 and a tripod! will post pictures at the end of the week.
cheers, mate.