i hope this does not make me a lesser person, but throughout my entire life, i have always dreaded raya. the having to salam-salam, the food, the having to sleep with lots of other people in a tiny room, and especially, the ziarah-menziarahi. i just don't get why, when i have already met the relatives at my grandparents' home, i still have to go visit them at their homes. why?? hehe.
i remember as a kid, i would pretend to be sleeping so my parents would leave me in the car while they went visiting. hehehe..
selamat hari raya, maaf zahir batin, anyway. travel safely, and eat well.